The discovery of the female G-spot caused a real sensation at one time, although there is still no conviction that it exists. At the same time, only a few people know about a similar male zone, but every man definitely has one and it is easier to find it. All you need is good lubrication and gentle fingers. And of course, absolute trust, because not every girl will have access to the most intimate.
Where is the G-spot in men?
Unlike women, who have to find a random mystery zone, men don't have to guess about its location. The point "G" in men, behind the well-known hidden prostate, is located on the front wall of the rectum, about 5 cm above the anus. When touched it resembles a tubercle the size of a walnut or chestnut, and in moments of excitement it swells.
To find the male G-spot, it is not necessary to examine the anus. You can also affect sensitive areas from the outside. It is located between the anus and the base of the penis, approximately in the middle of the perineum (there is usually no hair in this area). For some men, the erogenous zone may be slightly shifted to the left or right. To find it, you can ask your partner or girlfriend to caress the perineal area with their tongue. From the outside, the prostate can be felt as an almond-shaped seal.
Do all men like to caress the G-spot?
Sensations from prostate stimulation can be very different. Some men experience incredible pleasure (literally - to tears), for others it helps maintain passion, for others the pressure on the G-spot seems unpleasant and even painful. But it's definitely worth a try so as not to deprive your man of a special experience. The main thing is to act carefully and slowly, without sudden movements or using force.
A good way to test your response to stimulation of the area is to examine it during masturbation:
- By applying pressure to the area between the scrotum and anus just before ejaculation, ejaculation can be delayed.
- The effect in the process forces more blood into the penis, making the pulse stronger and more pleasurable.
- Strong rhythmic pressure mimics the process of prostate contraction, increasing the intensity of the final phase of orgasm.
- For more pleasure, it is recommended to caress the G-spot at the moment of reaching the maximum erection, as soon as the body of the penis swells along its entire length. If the sensation is unpleasant or not visible, you should wait a little. If at the moment of full stimulation there is still no reaction, perhaps this area in certain men is not considered erogenous. In this case, it's better to focus on stroking the scrotum and penis, or come back to explore that area later.
How to stimulate the male G-spot correctly?
If there is shyness or uncertainty in the partner, the first attempt may not be successful. But there's a chance the next investigation will bring even more fun if the man actually manages to free himself. Help in such games will be special devices (finger attachments, vibrating bullets, small vibrators), which are presented in various types in stores for adults. You can caress the g-spot in at least two ways:
- From the inside. Fingers or toys should be well lubricated with lubricant, and then inserted into the anus 5 cm or more. You should move towards the pubis. You can find the sensitive "g" spot by the tubercle on the rectal wall. And then you need to massage it carefully, watching the man's reaction.
- Outside. Here you can perform stimulation in two ways - verbally or manually. A man will be happy to touch the G-spot with the tip of his tongue, which can be alternated with a passionate kiss. When stroking with your hands, a gentle water-based lubricant will help increase gliding and give your partner more pleasure. You need to massage the area with the pads of your fingers, using circular movements and light pressure.
At the moment of orgasm, the G-spot will pulsate. To increase pleasure, you need to influence it in time with contractions. Adherents of Eastern teachings claim that in this way you can delay ejaculation and prolong sexual intercourse. In this regard, the male G zone is called the "million dollar spot", and sex experts developed special techniques to delay ejaculation. Such exercises will be useful for sexual dysfunction.
Is G-spot caressing beneficial for a man?
In fact, zone stimulation can be compared to a light prostate massage. Only the latter is done in medical facilities and does not always bring pleasant sensations, associating men with negativity and shame. Stroking the erogenous G-spot in a romantic setting is a completely different matter: both the setting and the presence of a loved one are conducive to pleasure. This is a good opportunity to strengthen the relationship and bring a more intimate effect to them.
As for the health benefits, regular caressing of the prostate will be a good prevention of male organ diseases. But only on the condition that at this time there is no pathology on this side, and the massage itself is performed gently, without unnecessary pressure. If G-spot stimulation causes pain or discomfort, it is best to see a doctor.
It is not recommended to affect the prostate area if a man has chronic and acute diseases of the reproductive system: urethritis, prostatitis, prostatic hyperplasia or tuberculosis, urinary disorders, hemorrhoids, fissures in the anus, etc. If in doubt, it is optimal to use light oral stimulation, excluding anal and manual massage of the G-spot.